Ben Shapiro put Governor Gavin Newsom on the spot during an episode of This Is Gavin Newsom, pressing him on the simple, stark question: can a boy become a girl? Newsom repeatedly dodged a direct answer, offering empathy and evasions instead of clear principles, and the exchange quickly grew tense as Shapiro refused to let the issue be softened into nebulous platitudes. For conservatives watching, it was a revealing moment — proof that liberal elites prefer feelings and slogans over clear answers and parental authority.
The clip shows exactly why everyday Americans are fed up: when confronted with a core biological reality, Newsom waffled rather than defending the commonsense notion that sexes are distinct. Shapiro’s point was blunt and political — Democrats have lost voters by refusing to acknowledge realities about sex and by promoting policies that many see as extreme — and Newsom’s non-answer underlined the disconnect between coastal elites and the rest of the country. Conservative commentators have rightly seized on the moment as evidence that the left prefers performative compassion to honest debate.
But this isn’t just theater; it’s policy. Across California some school districts have adopted identity support plans that can keep parents in the dark about their child’s requested social transition, a consequence of state-level protections and guidance aimed at shielding transgender students’ privacy. Parents who want to know what’s happening to their own kids are increasingly squeezed out of basic decisions, and voters should be furious that politicians like Newsom shrug and call these corner cases when the consequences are real for families.
The legal picture is messy because judges and legislatures have been pulled into the fight, with courts recently grappling with disputes over parental notification and school secrecy policies. A federal judge even ruled recently that teachers have a constitutional right to inform parents when a student expresses gender incongruence, highlighting the nationwide legal backlash to policies that keep parents in the dark. These back-and-forth rulings prove one thing: the policies being defended by the left aren’t settled law and they deserve scrutiny, not evasive answers from governors angling for national office.
Ask any parent — they don’t want their rights litigated away or their kids quietly funneled into irreversible paths without consent. Conservatives stand for parental rights, common-sense science, and protecting children from experimental ideologies masquerading as compassion, and moments like Shapiro’s interview expose how out of touch establishment Democrats are on those priorities. Newsom’s refusal to plainly say what should be obvious is political cowardice, not statesmanship.
Ben Shapiro did the job mainstream outlets have abandoned: he asked tough, practical questions that millions of Americans are asking in kitchen tables and church basements across this country. The strong reaction from conservative voices and commentators like Dave Rubin, Dr. Drew, and Sage Steele shows there’s no appetite for equivocation — voters want straightforward answers and leaders who will defend families. If Republicans take this issue seriously in 2026 and 2028, moments like Newsom’s dodging won’t be forgotten by the voters who actually decide elections.

