Fox & Friends Weekend served up a flashback this week that ought to embarrass any Democrat still pretending their party understands working men. The clip compiled the party’s awkward and rehearsed “tough guy” moments — the staged camo hats, forced brospeak, and awkward photo ops that scream messaging committee instead of grit.
The truth is plain: Democrats have been scrambling to cobble together an appeal to male voters and it’s painfully obvious when it’s engineered. Reporters across the country noted both parties were suddenly angling at masculinity ahead of recent elections, with Republicans leaning hard into a tough, unapologetic message while Democrats tried the manufactured “dude” approach.
You could see it in the playbook — “Dudes for Harris” style ad buys, clumsy attempts to sound like the guys at the hardware store, and a parade of politicians suddenly discovering their inner “man of the people.” The Politico writeups and campaign tracking showed these stunts for what they are: last-minute branding exercises, not genuine outreach to blue-collar men who value competence over virtue-signaling.
Even voices inside the Democrat tent have admitted the problem: strategists and veteran advisers warned the party’s tone was too feminine and condescending, alienating the very men they’re desperate to win. Democrats losing ground with male voters has been reported across outlets and even some prominent Democrats privately acknowledge their messaging is out of touch.
That’s because men aren’t looking for phony posturing; they can smell inauthenticity from a mile away. Pieces in conservative and independent outlets have been merciless in calling out the spectacle: a party that lectures working guys on manners and gender theory, then suddenly puts on a flannel shirt and hopes to be taken seriously, is not going to flip the rust belt back on charm alone.
Contrast that with the Republican playbook: be unapologetic about supporting law and order, economic opportunity, and cultural pride — messages that actually resonate with men who work with their hands and carry the nation’s burdens. As multiple reporting threads noted, Republicans have made overtures that tap into traditional masculinity and practical concerns in places where Democrats offered lectures.
Conservatives should call out the theater for what it is and keep doing the hard work: policies that grow paychecks, protect families, and respect American traditions. Hardworking men deserve authenticity, not performative toughness, and the coming political fights will reward the side that treats them like adults rather than a demographic to be gamed.