Gold Star families are speaking out against Vice President Kamala Harris, saying she has failed to support military families while praising former President Donald Trump for his compassion. These families lost loved ones during the chaotic 2021 withdrawal from Afghanistan. They accuse Harris of ignoring their pain and using politics to cover up mistakes.
Herman Lopez, whose son died in Afghanistan, called Harris’s words “empty.” He said she never reached out to grieving families in three years. Another father, Steve Nikoui, claimed Harris “deliberately” caused his son’s death to match a political timeline. Families feel abandoned by leaders who sent their children into danger.
Darin Hoover, whose son was killed, said Trump has been a “rock” for families. He described private meetings where Trump listened to their stories. Other parents shared similar experiences, saying Trump honors their sacrifices while Harris hides from them. These families believe Trump truly cares about the military.
Harris attacked Trump’s visit to Arlington Cemetery, calling it a “political stunt.” But Gold Star families defended him, saying the event was respectful. Hoover called Harris’s criticism “disgusting” and blamed her for the withdrawal’s chaos. Photos from the visit showed Trump comforting families—a contrast to Harris’s absence.
Jim McCollum, another Gold Star father, said Harris “failed” as vice president. He accused her of avoiding responsibility for the Afghanistan disaster. Families pointed out Harris never attended ceremonies honoring their children or said their names publicly. They see her as part of an administration that disrespects the military.
Khizr Khan, a critic of Trump, argued the Arlington visit broke rules against campaigning. But Gold Star families pushed back, saying they invited Trump to highlight their loss. They reject claims he exploited their pain, insisting he’s their only ally. Many signed a letter calling Harris “unfit” to lead the military.
The 2021 withdrawal hangs over these families. They blame Harris and Biden for poor planning that got their children killed. Mark Schmitz said leaders “sacrificed” troops for a rushed exit. Parents demand accountability but see none from the White House. For them, Trump’s empathy outweighs political debates.
These families vow to keep sharing their stories, hoping voters see the difference between Trump’s actions and Harris’s silence. They’re tired of “hollow” promises and want leaders who value military lives over politics. As one father said, “President Trump shows up—why won’t you?” Their fight for recognition continues.
